Modern Anarchy

On today’s episode, we have Shelia Vakharia (she/her) join us for a conversation about our right to bodily autonomy. Together we talk about meeting people where they are at, consciousness raising around set and setting, and moving beyond abstinence only paradigms. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head...

On today’s episode, we have Momo (they/them) join us for another Relationship Anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about creating mutually pleasurable relationships, getting off the intimacy escalator, and stepping into an abundance of love. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click...

On today’s episode, we have Roy Graff (he/him) join us for a conversation all about finding pleasure in expansive relating. Together we talk about the generations of lost orgasms, our unconscious cultural conditioning, and stepping into more touch support. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to...

On today’s episode, we have Darshana Avila (she/they) join us for a conversation all about erotic exploration. Together we talk about the connection between your eroticism and vitality, becoming a professional pussy stroker, and learning to receive pleasure. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over t...

On today’s episode, we have Paul Keable (he/him) join us for a conversation all about non-monogamy and the future of modern relationships. Together we talk about the difficulty with defining infidelity, how women grow tired of monogamy faster than men, and liberating our desires. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To l...

On today’s episode, we have Aaron (he/him) join us for another relationship anarchy research conservation. Together we talk about the finitude of our humanness, nerding out on the concept of hierarchy, and stepping into the abundance of expansive relating. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then c...

On today’s episode, we have Shai (he/him) join us for a conversation about expanding the capacity of our cultural imagination. Together we talk about the spectrum of non-monogamy, the Olympics of relationships, and how to support yourself and others through the expansion process. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To l...

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Avgi Saketopoulou  join us for a conversation about pushing the boundaries of your erotic edge. Together we talk about connection between pleasure and pain, limit consent, and the gift of erotic astonishment 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠...

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Jaime Grant (she/her) join us for a conversative about the lifelong practice of liberated love. Together we talk about the freedom of being disowned, reimagining exclusivity, and the pleasure of embodiment without shame. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the...

On today’s episode, we have Lucy Halliday (she/they) join us or another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about the anarchy of motherhood, connecting with our old-fashioned roots, and relationship anarchy as a listening-practice. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then c...

On today’s episode, we have Geoff Bathje Ph. D (he/him) join us for a conversation about embodying the values of Anarchy. Together we talk about bypassing vs integrating, practicing prefigurative politics, and writing thicker narratives. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Marie Thouin (she/her) join us for a conversation about creating fertile soil for compersion. Together we talk about the power of our narrative frames, choosing to turn towards connection, and emotionally touching your toes. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to...

On today’s episode, we have Moss Herberholz (he/they) join us for a conversation about the paradigm expansion of psychedelics and non-monogamy. Together we talk about learning from our jealousy, shattering the Madonna and the Whore complex, and pausing to integrate growth. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more,...

On today’s episode, we have Chrisalis (they/them) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about balancing the responsibility of our interconnectedness, the importance of friendship, and the power of presence. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the...

On today’s episode, we have Sally (they/she) join us for a conversation about the subconscious power structures that prevent us from embodying our pleasure. Together we talk about developing the language of pleasure, nerding out on the concept of hierarchy, and our collective need for connection. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast wi...

On today’s episode, we have Leola Watkins (she/her) join us for a conversation all about pleasure-based sex-ed. Together we talk about becoming turned on by life itself, the joy of being a feminist sub, and deconstructing the intimacy escalator. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website...

On today’s episode, we have Kristina Scott (she/her) join us for a conversation about the collective rebirth of our sexuality. Together we talk about coming home to yourself, trusting in the wisdom of tree time, and unpacking the severance from our pleasure. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over t...

On today’s episode, we have Erin O'Daniel (all pronouns) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about queering the narrative, sensual ways to be in conflict, and rewriting our hierarchy of needs. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the lin...

On today’s episode, we have Lola Phoenix (they/she) join us for a conversation about unpacking and honoring the roots of jealousy. Together we talk about running on the hedonic treadmill, learning to gentle parent ourselves, and the vulnerability of expressing our desires. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more,...

On today’s episode, we have Kate (she/her) join us for a conversation about embracing the interconnectedness of our pleasure. Together we talk about tuning into the wisdom of the body, the ego death psychedelic trip of non-monogamy, and the power of intentionality. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head ove...

On today’s episode, we have Prince Shakur (he/him) join us for a conversation about how the personal is the political. Together we talk about embracing the inevitability of change, deconstructing our unconscious conditioning, and the anarchy of sexual liberation. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head o...

On today’s episode, we have Betty (she/her) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about releasing the scarcity narrative, the Olympics of porn, and the mythical unicorn that is relationship anarchy. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the lin...

On today’s episode, we have Lea (she/her) join us for a conversation about the liberation of desire and the future of relationships. Together we talk about how the Disney dream dies, the intensity of paradigm shock, and cheating on the narrative. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the websit...

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Dave Rabin (he/him) join us for a conversation all about the ever expansive journey of knowing thyself. Together we talk about feeling our own damn feelings, the power of presence, and cultivating safety within the body. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the webs...

On today’s episode, we have Juan-Carlos Pérez-Cortés (he/him) join us for a conversation about the revolutionary power of building loving community. Together we talk about hierarchy vs preferences, the stomach ache of NRE, and rewriting the narratives of love. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to...