Choosing Us

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela revist the topic of fighting, arguements, and disagreements, with a twist and new take. This topic has been somewhat of a hot button in the world and is one that needs to be revisited. Brad and Michaela have NEVER had a fight in the 11 years they have been together. Can you believe that? Does fighting exist in your relationship? Tune in to f...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Michaela is interviewed by Brad. The purpose of this episode and the week following is to understand Brad and Michaela a bit more. Understanding them both allows to further comprehend where they came from, what drives them, and how to they got to where they are. The bases of how was their childhood, parent interaction, sibling interaction, and much more were...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad is interviewed by Michaela. The purpose of this episode and the week following is to understand Brad and Michaela a bit more. Understanding them both allows to further comprehend where they came from, what drives them, and how to they got to where they are. The bases of how was their childhood, parent interaction, sibling interaction, and much more were...

In this episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about really showing up for each other and checking in on each other. How often are you asking your partner where they energetically are at? How often do you show them love in the best way they feel it? How often are. you asking what you can do to improve as a partner? These are important questions that Brad and Michaela dive down. Brad relate...

On this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela have very special guests with them, Brad and Angel Brockbank. They go down the very difficult topic path of infertility and how they grew closer together. Brad and Angel speak about they struggles and trials of growth while striving to grow their very own family. Angel goes in depth of her processing and personal advancement as she struggled...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about hanlding the little things in your relationship, and life, as they come up. Brad gives the acronym, ANTs, which stands for Automatic Negative Thoughts. It is not about whether you had the thoughts or not, but what you do with the thoughts. They reference drifting within your marriage, one small annoyance at a time versus doing som...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about congruence, alignement, and getting on the same page with each other. They speak to the prevalence required for mutual understanding and agreement. They relate several intances where agreement was planned and needed, but not necessarily desired in the moment. They speak to parenting styles, who rules the roost, and what steps they...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about being there for each other and helping each other through difficult times. They speak about being a team and a team is only as strong as its weakest link. They both discuss recent events of loading stress within their lives and the outcome of temporary, acute pain. Further, they talk about changing their time structure within the...

In this episode of Choosing us, Brad and Michaela are joined by Tyler and Katelyn Ely. This is a very special episode and one of hope and the power of decision. Tyler and Katelyn were a successful marriage and family by the worlds standards for 16 years. Then, everything came crumbling down and they found themselves putting the idea of divorce on the table. They take us through their heart wrenchi...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about holidays and birthdays. Being a very timely day of release, Michaela's birthday, they discussed how they managed to merge the two opposite styles of celebration. While being raised, Michaela's mom made a grand deal about every holiday and birthday. On the other hand, Brad's dad ensured no holiday was made a big deal and they were...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela revisit the topic of date night and the vital imprortance of prioritizing them in your relationship and placing your relationship in the highest position. There should be nothing greater the your relationship. This is demonstrated by what your day looks like and how you show up. Brad and Michaela relate the difficulty of week prior and the d...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the influence of social media and what type of effect that has on relationships today. They discuss how they manage social media and what their life looks like because of their choices. Beyond that, they discuss joy in all its facets and how to best let joy serve you. They also discuss the difference between happiness and joy. Now, I...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela are joined by Chip Hopper. Chip is the first single person on the series and what a joy it was to spend this time with him. Chip shares personal stories of what it was like being married 21 years and then divorced, followed by long term relationship, and finally single at 50 years old. Chip is a master story teller, known as the Book Jedi, a...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela speak about the divinity of motherhood. They relate all that comes with being a mother and the energy it takes to truly show up. They cover the hormonal swings with both monthly cycles and pregnancy and the additional efforts needed by the husband during those times. They speak about how to best support the wife and what is needed to make ea...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss their dynamic and handling their kids within their wild and awesome life. They relay the experience they had with a friend visiting from out of town and seeing their world through his eyes. They speak about how much their learned through his lens. They discuss the need to ensure the other partner's needs are met and they are able to...

In this week's episode of Choose Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the great importance of showing up for you kids and doing the things they want to do. They recount speaking with friends that have great relationships with their teenagers and what they did to cultivate such a bond. They further discuss about their experience with going to the local amusement park, regardless of the financial hardship....

In this week's Episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela speak about words. More specifically, they discuss the importance of the words used when speaking about your partner. Are they resourceful or unresourceful? What about the evnironment you tend to hang around? Is the environment one of growth and bolstering of your relationship, or one of detriment? What actions are you taking, with your word...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela are joined by Sam and Dee Taggart. Sam and Dee are wonderful people with a great dynamic, which can be felt by the listener. Sam and Dee were both previously married before their relationship, bringing with them their own kid(s). They have managed to create a beautiful relationship with a blended family and entrepreneurship.  Both Sam and De...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela relate their experience with their ten year anniversary trip. This trip is usually a milestone trip for any relationship and this trip was nothing short of memorable for both Brad and Michaela. The tell about all the pivoting that took place in order to even get to their destination. Further, they discuss the importance of taking trips witho...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela go, again, down the rabbit hole of sexual intimacy within your relationship and the energy therein. They relate the concept of having sex for the purpose of connection and unity versus the selfish desires of getting off. There is a growth process that occurs within a relationship. They discuss the importance of having physical attraction, an...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela have Britt and Justin Critchfield. This is a masterclass for how to discover yourself. From discovering yourself, you can truly show up for both yourself and your partner. We are always, or should always, be evolving. This evolution brings with it a roller coast of learning. Britt and Justin walk us through how they truly learned who they ar...

On this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the importance of choosing the right partner. Understanding the concept and idea your partner is the greatest catalyst for success or failure is extremely important. As stated in previous episodes, it is pointed out to push your partner and help them in the direction they desire to go. How often are you being an advocate for your spo...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela are joined by Cole and Sanja Hatter. There is no time wasted in getting into the details of life as a roller coaster. This is a true masterclass on overcoming adversity and seeing extreme beauty on the other side. An undertone topic of the conversation is geared towards holding a standard for yourself and being an example to your partner. Co...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela discuss the importance holding each other's goals and standards for their spouse. We strive to have open communication and with that comes the conversation of goals. When one partner starts to become week in their drive, it is the other partner's job to hold the line. This has the ability to cause great friction within a relationship. Now, I...

In this week's episode of Choosing Us, Brad and Michaela talk about jealousy and insecurity. They discuss the great importance of looking inward if there are jealous feelings and having true and open dialogue. Brad is questioned how he handles complete and open dialogue and his day from the man's persepective. Michaela is pushed in the direction of the women's perspective and how to handle when Br...