Attitudes/Answers with Olen Baker

Difference of opinion doesn't have to be destructive when each person gives respect for their opinion.  Respect blocks conflict and is the way God intends for us to treat each other.  Not always easy, but always the best route.

Anger is a defensive measure designed to protect you.  But unresolved anger can build a wall that keeps you distanced from God and the person you have an issue with.  God can replace the wall with trust and most importantly, peace.  

When we get the wrong message, our response is based on something other than the truth.  Anger has lots of triggers.  God can help us discover the right way to resolve it.  Have a chat with Him.

Unresolved anger builds walls between people who care for each other.  Find the door in that wall and begin the process of repairing the damage before it becomes unrepairable.  

Anger has the ability to produce positive or negative results.  Irrational anger damages relationships.  Do you have issues like that?

A fit of rage rarely results in a good outcome.  So what if you could avoid that behavior?  Something to consider.

Anger is not always a bad emotion.  It's like letting steam off.  But the behaviors associated with anger are the issues that can get you into trouble.  

A lifetime of anger.  Not being able to let go of all the things that you perceived were done at your expense to damage you personally.  Imagine what that does to you internally and emotionally.  Not a great way to live your life, is it?

God's love for each of us loves us enough that even when mistakes are made, He is there to help initiate a fresh start.  That means you too.  

Anger can also be described as a motivator.  That's because it can be a pathway to pursue solutions to an issue.  Don't let anger be a dead end for you.

Anger so LOUD that you cannot hear reasoning?  Has that ever happened to you?

It's always tough to admit and take ownership of a bad choice.  Anger comes into play when we are upset with our decision.  Anger is a dangerous emotional tool.

Mistakes are uncomfortable but they are a pathway to correcting behaviors and attitudes.  Are they necessary?  You decide.

Bad choices are made, simply when a person is unwilling to listen to the still, small voice of God.  Has that ever happened to you?

Yeah, we all make mistakes, but an honest mistake is often made when we have limited facts and decide to move ahead without fulling thinking about the prospects of our actions.  Has that ever happened to you?

Ever have a problem making a decision?  Everybody does.  Experience gives is a pathway to making decisions and moving ahead with confidence and peace.  

We all make mistakes.  That's how we learn to turn from perpetuating a life filled with regret.  So, what is success?  It's purpose, plan and simple.  God can help you get to that place.

God gives us opportunities to change the direction of our life.  So the secret is, listen to him before you make a decision that you might regret.  Use your faith in God as your first step...always.

Negative entrapments.  Have you ever been in a place that you didn't want to be, but couldn't figure out how to get out?  You're not alone.

Gods grief and sadness can be instrumental in healing your issues in life.  Reconciliation pleases the Lord.  And he gives us the power to do that.

Day by day, issues, conflicts, anger and confusion can take us off the path for a strong relationship with God.  It will happen.  Question is, how will you respond?

Everybody at some time in their life needs a fresh start.  Has that ever happened to you?  Right now, today, give it a try.

Failing to keep a promise to yourself, others, and God often gives birth to negative consequences.  And that can follow you for a lifetime.  Steps one and two:  Apologize and seek forgiveness.  That sets the path for a peaceful resolution.

Facing, rather than denying a situation exists is the first step of changing direction.  From a problem, to a solution.  So, how do you address issues in your life?

You know what?  God gives us the initiative and staying power to get us through any and every situation.  Do you have a relationship that needs healing?